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"Banat Al Riyadh" … Work that deserves appreciation …

I think that by now, almost everyone had heard or read something about this work that created a lot of conflict in the Saudi community, and maybe in the region at large; I am referring to the novel "Banat Al Riyadh" for Raja'a Abdullah Al Sane'.


I have tried to pick up this book from our bookstores in town, but it was no where to be found, and it seems that the banning that was forced on it in Saudi has extended to reach the freedom that our own bookshelves enjoys most of the time.

After all my attempts to find this book failed, I resorted to the only left method; purchasing it online and finally got the book through "Adab wa Fan".

Before turning the cover to start my journey with a new book, I took a look at the back and read a nice comment by Ghazi Al Quseibi, and I said to myself: if such a great writer of our time gives such a comment on this book, it must be good and worth reading.

I started reading and the pages kept turning; and I found myself fascinated by the author's writing style that kept flowing, till I realized that I finished the 319 pages in one day literally. I really could not let the book down and was so into the characters, lived their turmoil and tragedies, was happy for their happiness and felt sorry for them at times.

The book is a collection of emails that the author started sending to an email group. She used to send an email every Friday and then sitting back and enjoying the reaction that included discussions in workplaces, some newspaper columns, some magazine articles and a lot of hate mail to the author herself.

The author succeeded in exposing the insider edition of what really goes on in the closed community that the heroines lived in. The four friends presented different models of modern Saudi women who are struggling in a society that insists on pushing the woman backwards, and I have to say that I admire and respect all these women that are truly out there fighting to induce change and make significant difference.

Some might argue that this is not a true representation of Saudi community or women for that matter, and this might have some truth to it, however; we cannot deny that these models do exist and not only in Saudi, but also in the Arab world as a whole.

Reading the stories of these 4 magnificent girls made me really happy that I live in a country that succeeded in liberating its communities enough to make us lead successful careers and create an opportunity for us to become independent, and when the man becomes a part of our lives, we have the ability to become interdependent with him, for that; we are truly lucky.

As I was reading the stories and following up on the events; I kept remembering the other famous four friends who were completely different in personalities, yet they shared a wonderful relationship and their friendship was stronger than men and time itself. Of course I am talking about Carrie, Miranda, Samantha and Charlotte; the main characters in the very popular show; "Sex and the City"


I really recommend that you grab this book and read it; if not to get an internal view of these ladies' closed lives, read it to get a feel of the author's great writing that promises her with a bright future should she decide to pursue it, and promises us with good reading material that is highly needed in our world of today.   


On February, 25, 2006 9:37 AM , Geekette said:

Hi Khalidah,

I heard about the book a while back and it would be great to see an English edition printed! I checked the author's site but only a summary in English for now. I used to live in Riyadh, so I'm quite familiar with the youth (or anyone there trying to get out and about more, really) vs the muttawas issue so I'm quite interested in reading the book.

On February, 25, 2006 10:49 AM , Khawaja M. said:

hey Khalidah :)
This book is quite impressive! I got my copy from the kiosk next to Habiba in the city center.. no need to buy it online.

This comment is sponsored by Habiba:)

On February, 25, 2006 2:13 PM , Khalidah said:

Geekette, welcome to my blog and thank you for the comment
I have never lived in Riyadh but found the book to be quite impressive .. and I too hope that the author considers an English version if she is not working on that already

Khawaja M, I was told that I can find the book in kiosks downtown, but frankly; I did not have the time to go there and get it .. so I used the second best technique; Online!!

Thanks for the tip though; however; I still believe that the best Habiba branch is the one on Madaba street in We7dat, and this comment is sponsored by them :D

On February, 25, 2006 4:11 PM , Fadi K said:

Paid 2 Blog :)

On February, 25, 2006 4:15 PM , Khalidah said:

boy it took you ages to blurt that one out Fadi, LOL
I asked Laith, both Hala and me did, but he did not give us a good answer :)
Thanks for explaining

On February, 25, 2006 5:12 PM , Rami said:

Khalidah,

Is "Sex and the City" in your opinion a model for the liberation and independence of women?

There are two issues here: first the emancipation of women isn't precisely "independence" and "freedom" - men can't have total independence and freedom by virtue of the social contract. It's something you have to accept living in a community. If you wanted unrestrained independence and freedom that can only be attained in the forst.

Second, the novel touches on legitimate social issues, but Sex and the City hardly carries a social message, it is a commercial venture for a feminist market. What a way to insult female emancipation by turning her into a commercial product!



On February, 25, 2006 5:30 PM , Khalidah said:

Rami, thank you for the comment .. but that was not my intention in mentioning Sex and the city here .. I only mentioned it for the resembelenace that is shared in the significant differences in the four friends' personalities and for having one of them write about their problems ..
Sex and the city is a model in that society and not in ours .. and I don't remember implying that at all .. I simply said that the four friends reminded me of the show in terms of the relationship they shared, period..

On February, 25, 2006 9:42 PM , fadi K said:

Sorry Khalida , I hardly had time to check my email! bas ele 3 days mo shayef el fada with tons of work to finish.... Working in a startup company just rocks my night! My God ....

On February, 25, 2006 9:58 PM , Fadi K said:

Hello Again , it seems I come from another Galaxy.. lol ... I had no clue what you were talking about above ..lol , but I think I heard of that series 5-6 years ago .

A favor , please try not to be so P2B .. so people like me will get to read what you write :) .. mercy guys!

On February, 25, 2006 9:59 PM , hamede said:

raheba ya mind.

On February, 25, 2006 10:04 PM , Khalidah said:

Fadi K, you disappoint me my friend, :)
Why do you think that I am P2B?

Hamede, welcome to my blog and merci :D

On February, 25, 2006 11:25 PM , fadi K. said:

Hi Khalida, I am just kidding. You know what , on Wed, When Laith & Omar came over to our party , the first thing he told me was :" Fadi, you are one of the most popular bloggers in Jeeran" ... so i invented that on a side talk because you were the first to come to my mind because i never managed to become the most popular blogger yet .. ya3ne eshwayet 7asad 3ala gheere and stuff :)

But be sure i won't blog the things we cook or the kittens i see in the street ;)

On February, 25, 2006 11:27 PM , fadi K. said:

So please bear up with me .. ok ?

I think the above answers what you once asked me about the Automatic blogger thing ;)

On February, 26, 2006 3:25 PM , noblese said:

That's a book I would love to read ... but where to find it here.
p.s. You have a very nice blog.

On February, 26, 2006 3:31 PM , Khalidah said:

Noblese, welcome to my blog and thank you for the lovely comment
I think you can get the information from the author's website as there is a link for purchasing the book online; that's what I did; I got it through adab wa fan, and this link is also available in the post above
Good luck and enjoy it, it is a good book actually

On April, 10, 2006 2:30 PM , Context Writing & translation services
from Jordan said:

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On April, 25, 2006 6:34 PM , Mikwa
from United States said:

I'm so impressed with the review of this book, Banat al Riyadh, I have searched for it's copy with no success. Could someone tell me how to get a copy...English translated copy, please? Thank You!
And to Rajaa, Good luck in your next book and more to come.

On April, 26, 2006 12:26 AM , Hawra
from United States said:

Hiiii i just started reading the book Banat Al Riyadh, and i want to say that it is awsome. I have never read any arabic stories before, thats the first one that i read..and i love it a lot.

i want to ask doesn any one know if Raja the author of the book have a website, or does any1 know her email.

thank u